( kind of a fib. she was pretty pissed off at him for doing what he did back in their world — screwing with the timeline irreparably to save his family when he knew he shouldn't have ... doing exactly what sara thinks about doing on the regular.
she'll never be good at articulating it, but her best deduction is that her frustration with barry has stemmed from frustration with herself. )
( it's a weak dismissal and sara knows it. some good her big heart does her, considering she's probably the second worst person in this whole city at expressing how she feels — stuck behind a certain someone that she and barry both know all too well. )